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Myths and Misunderstandings

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Raising adopted children is just like raising biological children.

Raising adopted children is nothing like raising biological children.

Adopted children never bond/attach to their adoptive parents or siblings.

Adopted children easily, quickly, and lastingly bond/attach to their adoptive parents and siblings.

Adoptive parents are/were too lenient or permissive.

Adoptive parents are/were too strict or authoritative.

Adoptees always want to find their birth mother and/or family.

Adoptees never want to find their birth mother and/or family.





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